Tuesday, September 22, 2020

COVID-19, a spiritual perspective

This pandemic is not about blaming China for bat viruses, berating scientific research, or finding the perfect vaccine. This is the time to develop spiritual resilience. We are facing an existential challenge. An existential challenge has to do with human existence. When we face big questions, which involve the meaning of life and our continued existence, we are wrestling with an existential crisis. This crisis challenges us to question our continued existence and purpose in life. This is the true, inherent, spiritual work of living.  Some of us choose to participate in soul evolution, and some choose to pursue life as if it is a game. The existential crisis is a serious pattern of thinking. It is possible for the aware, thoughtful person to master the crisis and move past these challenges with greater understanding and enhanced resilience. 

I have a great empathy and compassion for those individuals experiencing the COVID-19 virus. Their suffering pains me deeply. As a child, I also had a unique, unknown virus that put me in isolation in the hospital. Long after the body is seemingly well, the mind and spirit remember the aloneness and fear. That was a devastating experience for me and impacted the rest of my life. That's why I take the current COVID-19 crisis very seriously.

Why do the scientists and directors of our well-known health institutions (NIH, CDC, etc.) overwhelm us with facts and data and charts? Why do they seemingly not care about empowering the individual toward healthy lifestyle choices and strengthening the immune system?  Do they think this is unimportant? I am sure they realize the importance of healthy lifestyle choices and a strong immune system. But as professional, ethical persons they know the limits of their job. The answer is, they want us to take this seriously, and they are not the family doctor. They are researchers, so they talk research. Every person should be talking to their own family doctor about proactive, lifestyle activities to enhance immunity.

It is up to you to look after your personal daily life and analyze what is out of balance. Does the lack of balance live in the realm of mind, body or spirit? Do your research online about mind/body activities, immune enhancing foods and supplements, and incorporate immune strengthening activities into your daily life. Review your thought patterns, are they building psychological resilience? It is my theory, that those individuals who are not in the at-risk age range and have no underlying health conditions, should review the mind and spirit aspects of life for precipitating factors that left you vulnerable to the virus. Consider your stress levels, personality characteristic, how do you define a successful life, do you take as much as much care with your own needs as the needs of others, are you at peace with your relationships with self/others/community/God?

I understand the medical scientists caution about lifestyle suggestions because they are interested in giving the facts. But researched facts are not the totality of the story. I believe we should practice proactive, daily activities to maintain a healthy lifestyle and strengthen the immune system.

FIRST STEPS to a stronger immune system https://www.kemin.com/na/en-us/blog/human-nutrition/five-factors-that-affect-immune-system


1.      Hand Washing

People tend to overestimate their hygiene. Studies show that only 67% of people wash their hands after using a public restroom, vs. 85% who report washing their hands after public restroom use. 1,2 And even if you do wash your hands, you may not be doing it correctlyCenters for Disease Control recommends 15 seconds of scrubbing your hands with soap, or humming the “Happy Birthday” song TWO TIMES! 1 You should try it - it feels like an eternity when you’re standing in front of a mirror in a public restroom, next to a stranger that you might be trying to avoid talking to. As you probably know, the restroom isn’t the only place you should be washing your hands. But studies show we do a better job in the restroom, likely due to social pressure and the convenient location of soap and a sink. An even smaller percentage of people report washing their hands after participating in other activities that significantly increase risk of exposure to microbes like petting a dog or cat (42% of people), handling money (27% of people), and coughing or sneezing (39% of people). 2


2. Sleep Cycles

The immune system is influenced by the sleep-wake cycles of our circadian rhythms. Studies suggest that while we’re sleeping, we have decreased levels of the stress hormone cortisol, which can suppress immune function, and increased signals that activate the immune system. 4 Even though we know that sleep is important, it can be difficult to get enough, especially during busy times of the year. According to a Gallup survey, 56% of adults say they get enough sleep. However, 7 hours is the minimum recommended amount of sleep for adults and only 40% of us are averaging 6.8 hours of sleep per night. 


3. Nutrients from Food

Everywhere we turn, we see PSAs, news stories and blogs boasting the importance of fruits and vegetables for a plethora of health reasons, and the same applies to immune health. Studies show vitamins C, A, E, B6 and B12 and minerals like iron and zinc are important for the maintenance of immune function, all of which can be found in fruits and veggies. 7 If you’re a clean-eating enthusiast, you’re probably getting enough of these vitamins and minerals, but many of us aren’t. The Dietary Guidelines for Americans recommends 4.5 cups of fruit and vegetables per day. 5


4. Cortisol Levels

Another challenge that plagues our immune system is a familiar foe to many of us. STRESS. Hectic work schedules and abundant daily responsibilities can leave us frazzled. Increased levels of the stress hormone, cortisol, makes it difficult for the immune system to function properly. The American Psychological Association reports that 75% of Americans experience moderate to high levels of stress8,9 In addition to the direct impact of stress on immune function, unmanaged stress can influence our sleep patterns, our mood, our dietary intake and our physical activity levels. All of these factors are associated with immune system function. 8


5. Supplement Intake

To promote and support healthy behaviors, supplements and fortified foods have been widely used to support immune health. According to Nutraingredients, 29% of supplement users take an immune health product. 11Beta-glucan is an emerging ingredient in immune health supplements. Beta-glucan is a naturally occurring glucose polymer or insoluble fiber found in cereal grains like oat and barley, certain types of mushrooms, yeast, seaweed, and algae. Although all types of beta-glucan have some health benefit, the beta-glucan found in yeast, mushrooms and algae can provide benefits that support immune health10 


FIRST STEPS to Boost Your Emotional Resilience, Backed by Research, https://time.com/4306492/boost-emotional-resilience/

 

  • Foster optimism: Don’t be in denial. See the world clearly but believe in your abilities.

 

  • Face your fears: Hiding from fear makes it worse. Face it and you overcome it.

 

  • Have a moral compass: A strong feeling of right and wrong tells us we must when we feel we can’t.

 

  • Practice spirituality: Be a part of a group that has strong beliefs.

 

  • Give and receive social support: Tapping on the wall of your cell can keep you going.

 

  • Imitate resilient role models: Or have people you know you do not want to be.

 

  • Physical fitness: Exercise adapts your body to stress.

 

  • Be a lifelong learner: Keep your brain sharp and it will give you solutions when you need them most.

 

  • Have a number of ways to cope: Be like Navy SEALs and Special Forces operators — and laugh.

 

  • Have meaning in your life: Don’t just do a job; have a calling and a purpose. 

 

15 Foods That Boost the Immune System

https://greatist.com/health/immune-boosting-foods#bell-peppers

 

Bell peppers, red, yellow, green

 

Citrus fruits, oranges, lemons, limes, grapefruits, tangerines, clementines 

 

Shellfish, lobster, crab, clams, oysters, mussels

 

sunflower seeds

 ginger

 

 garlic 

 

broccoli

 

yogurt

 

spinach

 

almonds

 

chicken soup 

 

Kiwi

 

papaya

 

green tea 

 

elderberry

 

mushrooms

 

acai

 

watermelon

 

Wheat germ

 

sweet potatoes, 

 

miso

 

pomegranates

  

I just finished an excellent online course by T Colin Campbell and eCornell university. To maintain a healthy immune system, one should avoid dairy, limit the amount of meat you eat, and eat as many raw vegetables, beans, and whole grains as possible. 


Practice resilience!!

 

 

Thursday, July 5, 2018

Cyber Bullying

I am being cyber bullied by a man named A. Carroll, PHD. After a little online research, I found that he has done this to many others as well. I had never heard of this man in my life. But he decided he does not like the way I live my life, based on what he read about me on my blog. Do I have suggestions for people who are being cyber bullied? I’m not really sure.

The bully wants to believe they are superior, in control, have the power, and will attack you in your most vulnerable heart spot. I have a lot of compassion for those who buy into the bully’s view of the world. The scariest bully is the one who is also clinically narcissistic, as they can lose control and act out.

Carroll seems to resent anyone who does not match his personal rule book, which no one has a copy of but him. He claims he has a right to harass based on the fact that he is a minority. He seems to be a Trumpian-style person, who enjoy slandering and belittling people. (in his head, he has a right to bully, he is offended that I enjoyed my class on Nemenhah)

The email I received from him was most revealing. It was apparent there was very little reason for me to reply to it because he knows everything and all white people are racist ----so there is absolutely no reason for me to say anything. But of course, I did reply, so we’ll see what happens next. I took a humor approach in my posted reply. It will be fun to see if the bully leaves it. I took this tactic because it made me feel empowered. If I lived in the same town as he does I would not do this, see the warning in paragraph 2.

Cyberbullying is when the bully uses technology, such as the Internet, emails, text messages, or social media, to harass, threaten, or humiliate a person. It seems to haunt your life because it’s not limited to just a handful of witnesses but exists in cyber space over time. Unlike traditional bullying, it does not require face-to-face contact and does not require physical power or strength in numbers.
Anyone with an Internet connection or mobile phone can cyberbully someone else, often without having to reveal their true identity. Cyberbullies can torment you 24 hours a day, seven days a week. Because of the nature of the internet, the bullying can follow you anywhere. It can feel like no place, not even home, feels safe. The harassment and humiliation can be witnessed by hundreds or even thousands of people online.
The methods used to cyberbully can be as varied and imaginative as the technology that the bully has access to. It can range from sending threatening or taunting messages via email, text, social media, or IM to breaking into your email account, or stealing one’s online identity to hurt and humiliate. Cyberbullies may even create a website or social media page to target you.
Cyberbullying can make you feel like you’re stranded somewhere that no-one else can get to with no-one who understands, and nowhere to turn for help.

Coping Strategies
Don’t respond immediately keep in mind that the person who’s targeting you wants you to respond.

Follow up when you’re calmer and get a proper feel for the situation before contacting the person who is cyberbullying you.

Take screenshots This is the best way for you to report an instance of cyberbullying.

Try to stop compulsively checking posts and limit your social media time to a few hours a day, and you can take a break from the online world to look after yourself.

Report and block. Most social media sites want to help you feel safe online, so they have a lot of built-in tools to keep you safe. 

There are some good ideas on how to deal with cyberbullies. However, there is no easy, simple solution to stop cyberbullying. Typically, bullying or cyberbullying is rarely limited to one or two incidents. It's more likely to be a sustained attack over a period of time. You may have to be relentless in your efforts to confront bullying, and to maintain mental/emotional resilience.
Key ideas to remember:
The bully is the person with the problem, not you. Don't blame yourself. No matter what a bully says or does, you should not be ashamed of who you are or what you feel.
The bully is an unhappy, frustrated person who wants to have control over your feelings so that you feel as badly as they do. Don't give them the satisfaction. Try to view bullying from a different perspective
Don't make a bullying incident worse by dwelling on it or reading cyberbullying messages over and over. Delete any messages and focus on the positive experiences in your life. Don't beat yourself up there are many wonderful things about you so be proud of who you are.
Finding healthy ways to de-stress can make you more resilient so you won't feel overwhelmed by negative experiences. Try: exercise, meditation, positive self-talk, muscle relaxation, and breathing exercises are all good ways to cope with the stress of bullying.
The more time you spend with activities that bring you pleasure the less significance bullying or cyberbullying will have on your life. Spend time doing things you enjoy: sports, hobbies, hanging out with friends who don't participate in bullying.
The bully wants to have power over you and to make you feel less than. I would suggest you find a way to empower yourself and your thinking.
Any person who would bully another, and any person who justifies their own bullying, or abusive behavior is a mentally sick person. This type of person cannot be reasoned with, you can never win them over. If you are in danger make a plan to get out of the situation.
Stay strong, do not let anyone steal your joy, bliss, or light. Empower yourself and find an online support group. Better yet, start your own real life support group; new friends can often be more interesting than the old. You could try doing volunteer work; reaching out a helping hand to others reminds us that we have a valuable role to play in life.



https://www.talkspace.com/blog/2017/07/7-ways-to-deal-with-cyberbullying/





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